Just a quick Haiku for your day.


Back! (Sorta)

These last few months have been a whirlwind of emotions, events, choices, and everything else in between. But, to get through I’ve not only been reading more books and binging on Netflix shows (Sense8, just love), but I’ve also picked up poetry again. Writing about my experiences has helped me in so many ways.

How do you cope with hard days?

PS: Poetry Instagram account is @msspoetry

Blogging Hiatus

Hello All,

I apologize in advance for my absence, and am not ready to say that it is over. This last month has been quite stressful, and so I will be taking some more time to organize things and deal with a few unexpected problems. (Like a car accident, though not my fault. The culprit ran, bugger.)

I hope you are all well, and wish you a wonderful Easter and a wonderful beginning to April and Spring!



Let’s Connect on Twitter!


Now that Vero’s been canned, I’ve finally decided to give Twitter a try. It only took me a few years to give in, but as of last night, my Twitter account (@woodsandroads) does exist. On it, expect to find random musings, photos of my journals and day-to-day life, book recommendations (or aversion warnings), music recommendations, and what else have you.

And, if you’re on Twitter too, let me know!


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The Light & Dark Side of Snailmailing


Happy Sunday all! If you read yesterday’s post, then you know I have been an avid snailmailer for several years now. Since college, I’ve enjoyed setting aside some time to write back to penfriends in the US and other parts of the globe. It’s both physically and emotionally therapeutic. However, for those of you looking to get into snailmailing, I do have a few warnings for you, and would also like to share a few things I learned along the way.

Let me first begins with the Cons of Snailmailing:

  1. You may not “click” with some fellow snailmailers. If this happens for one reason or another, you need to be able to let them know and end the mail exchange respectfully. (Or, you could just stop writing, as some have done. . . . just kidding. Be nice and let the other person know.)
  2. Snailmailing can be expensive. Depending on where you sending a letter too, and how heavy the envelope, chances are you might spend more than the cost of a single stamp.
  3. In the same line, you might find yourself spending postage on a letter that will never get a response.
  4. Life happens, and even though you might have clicked with a person, they may stop writing. It’s like any relationship, people eventually move on.
  5. You need to be careful and listen to your gut. Sometimes, you might run across fake ads and scammers, and need to be sure about a person before disclosing any personal information.  

Now, the Pros of Snailmailing:

  1. You get to learn about the lives and experiences from other people around the globe.
  2. You can gain friendships that may last for years.
  3. You can gain valuable insight about yourself and life in general from a different, objective, perspective.
  4. Writing by hand to someone can also be therapeutic.

One thing that is neither a Pro or a Con is that snailmailing does take time. It takes time to write a letter, mail a letter, and receive a response. So, if you decide to give this a try, don’t expect instant responses. Be patient. Also, sometimes, you will run across people who want to swap more, or write more. It all depends on what kind of correspondence you are looking for, but just be sure to establish the relationship at the beginning. (By swap, I mean people who like to trade stationery goodies. Which is another form of snailmailing.)

I found most of my penpals on Tumblr or Instagram (though one I met on WordPress). More recently (as in the last year), I’ve been on Instagram because, let’s face it, you can tell if someone’s Instagram feed is fake over a Tumblr one. (Or, at least, it’s easier to tell for the most part.) Refer to Con #5. There are shady people out there online, and you do need to be careful with who you interact with. Listen to your gut, and if something seems off about a person, abort. Abort mission asap!

Also, if you’re living with others, family or friends, be sure to ask their permission before disclosing your home address. (Or, you can get a PO Box.)

Well, I hope this proves useful to some of you. If you have any questions though, or would like to share your own experiences, please comment or reach out via email. 

And with that, have a great Sunday!

*Photo by Estee Janssens, Unsplash. 


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Handwritten Letters


Growing up, my world was very small. Socially and physically. I wasn’t allowed outside without supervision, and couldn’t sleep over at any friends house. (In fact, my first sleepover wasn’t until college!) It was only school, whatever after school program was offered, the library (on weekends), and home. Suffice to say, I was pretty sheltered and only knew people around my hometown.

I never thought I would know people from other parts of the world.

Cue the internet. Cue social media. 

During my second year of college, around 2011, I stumbled across (ok scrolled across) a post on Tumblr that jumped out at me. It was a penpal ad from a Tumblr user. Who it was I cannot recall anymore, but the very fact that there was someone else out in the world who wanted to write to someone, via pen and paper, was intriguing. I wondered if there were others, and sure enough, after clicking on a few tags, I found a good amount of ads.

So I responded to a few, received responses (only to a few of my own), and little did I know, fell into a new hobby called snailmailing. Now, in 2018, I correspond with people in the states, and all over the world. I honestly never imagined this would be possible, and it is.

My world has grown since I was a child, and by writing to people I’ve met online, it’s only grown more. Not only this, it served as a great therapy for when I was sad, depressed, or sick. It helped knowing that there were people I could write to, even though I was alone during my day-to-day life.

Being able to confide in someone, and receive an outsider’s opinion, helped tremendously. As someone who does have a spark of social anxiety, writing to another person is much more easy and liberating than speaking to someone face to face. There are fewer walls, and fewer fears of rejection. (Of course, not hearing back from someone does hurt, but not as much as it does when someone rolls their eyes and walks away right in front of me. Gladly, that rarely, if ever, happens. But the fear remains.)

I am really thankful for the people I correspond with, now and in the past. I am thankful for the friendships I have made, and for the opportunity I have of glimpsing other parts of the world beyond my own. I am thankful for the chance to sit down, open a decorated envelope, and read a letter written out by hand. I am thankful too, to those who took the time to write to me.

So, if you ever feel lonely, want someone to talk to, want to learn about another part of the world, or if you simply want to learn and practice a new language, I encourage you to reach out and try getting a penpal for yourself.

But that said, there are some good sides and bad sides to penpaling. I will address these in tomorrow’s post, so stay tuned.

For now, enjoy the rest of Saturday!

*Photo by Joanna Kosinska, Unsplash. 


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Audiobooks Continued


Only one post this President’s Day weekend guys, been a bit busy. I hope you’re all spending it with loved ones or somewhere relaxing. Me, I’ve been tackling chores and getting things ready for an upcoming interview! (Wish me luck guys.)

Since my last post on audiobooks, I’ve visited my local library and am now a proud owner (once again) of a library card. This library was located next to my high school, and I must admit, it was a huge blast from the past. I walked into the Margaret Troke Library with a huge sense of nostalgia. Everything more or less still looked the same, neat wooden bookcases, a quiet atmosphere, and everything was warmly lit by a mixture of natural sunlight and artificial lights. Hard to believe it had been ten years since I last stepped foot inside.

Man, do I feel old.

The main reason I wanted a library card is because I found out (yup, I’m late to the game) about two apps where I could read and listen to books (movies and music too) for free: Overdrive and Hoopla.

Over the last couple weeks, I’ve really liked listening to audiobooks while cleaning, or crafting. I’ve been able to focus more attention on the narrator and don’t rewind as often. Sure, now and then I still wish I had a physical books, especially after hearing a particularly good paragraph (I annotate my books when I want to remember a good line), but I’ve gotten to noting the chapter and time during those instances.

That said, I didn’t really feel like paying $14 a month for a audiobook service. Cue in Hoopla and Overdrive. Sure there’s the occasional wait list, but that’s okay.

On another note. I’ve been listening to “The Alienist”, by Caleb Carr, and I must stay, I strongly recommend the book. It’s subtly funny, suspenseful and surprisingly informative.

Well, have a good day everyone!

Photo by: Ksenia Makagonova, Unsplash. 


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